I have faced a cycle of this always in reference to my relationships with others. People's expectations from me, and their opinion of my expectations from them is so different from what I believe. I have always been a person who will call you or contact you when I truly feel like, not when I feel that it's a courtesy to call. And, I expect the same from you. I expect that people who are close to me will not only "Call" me whenever they require me for their purpose only . I don't remember if I ever myself complaint anybody about being too busy to call [Exceptions are always there ;) ]. I have friends who does and those relationships are/will not so strong[failed] for me.
May be I am too unsuited for what a "social" relationship means today's practical & professional era. I probably cannot change myself, because whenever I tried to, I felt as if I am "faking" to be something which I am not.... But, I do force myself occasionally, because there are some situation where I cannot afford to make others changes, instead of change myself. But it happens occasionally for small span and very hard do ...... :(
Thursday, June 3, 2010
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